Definitions of “I’m fine” from someone with chronic pain
- I’m having a relatively low pain day
- I feel normal but don’t want to bum you out
- I’m hurting a lot but I don’t want you to think I’m complaining
- I’m hurting a lot but you’re only asking to be nice so I won’t tell you that
- I’m not doing fine but I’m trying to convince myself I am
- I am too tired to tell you how I actually feel
- It makes me too upset to tell you how I actually feel
- I have forgotten what “fine” is so I use the word and I hope you don’t question it
This list is by no means complete, these are just what I find most often in my life
